Kids And Bullying

It's that dreaded situation - your child is a bully, or at least, you suspect that is the case.  How should you deal with the situation?  It is important to realize that nearly one in ten children are victmized by bullies and that bullying is a very serious problem that should not be taken lightly.  Start by determining how your child is bullying others.  The most common type of bullying is physical;punching, pushing, kicking, etc.  However, a child may be teasing other children, calling them names or otherwise verbally assaulting them.  Once you have determined the type of bullying, you need to make it completely clear to your child that the behavior is unacceptable.  Then, you need ot find out the reason that your child has become a bully.  Talking to your child may lead to him or her giving you an explanation, however in many cases it is a good idea to involve a professional counselor who is specially trained to work with bullying children.

What should I do when another child bullies mine?  So many parents tell their children to ignore bullies, and to look the other way rather than react.  However, it is never advisable to let bullying go, because it will never just 'go away'.  In some cases, it may not even be apparent to you that your child is being bullied because bullied children are often afraid to tell an adult what is happening.  When you suspect that bullying is an issue, talk to your child and school officials.  Getting the teachers and school administratiors involved will make them aware of the probelm and you can work together to find a solution.  Remember, vigilance and communication can go a long way towards preventing a bullying situation.

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